Saturday 22 October 2011

Love in relationships.

As you all can see in this world, there is this whole attention given to this love idea.

Everybody is given love idea a great support, but understand that each are in themselves participating in a different level of love. What do i mean with this..??

Lets say you are in a relationship with someone, and you are telling each other that you love each other so much and all the bullshit the goes with it. But both of you do not know in fact what is going on within the other, you are both believing that the other is loving you, like you are loving him/her. And understand to that, both of you are linking love to a feeling, a good feeling, so as long as you can make each other feel good about each other everything will look very lovely, isn't it...??


I am going to give you an example so you can see more clearly that, that which you are saying to each other, is all created within each what they are talking about and what they are feeling.

This is the sentence that most use in this world to express(voice-out) the so-called  love for one another:

'' I love you ''  Now this sentence is implying that you can love another person in fact. What i wrote here is right now very difficult for you to see/understand/realize, because you are very extensively brainwashed to and as this word ''love'' to be something to say or feel for another that is accepted as ''good.''

What i am going to show you, so it can become more clear for you to see what i am saying is that i am going to remove the word ''love'' in the sentence above and replace it with the word ''feel.''  o.k...??

So lets see how it would look like now: '' i feel you ''  Now is this possible in this reality in fact to feel someone else...??  You can only feel something about another person, but you cannot feel the person in fact, for real, and with this i mean have the feeling of what is going on within the other person and experience this feeling as your own. This doesn't happen in this reality, the physical reality. Now like this, it is very easy for you  to see that this is not real, you cannot feel someone else in fact. But now the moment i replace again the word feel with the word love,it becomes like very difficult for you to see/understand/realize that the outcome is the same. Can you see this....?? Meaning you cannot love another person in fact...!!!

So now, when i say: '' you cannot love another person in fact'' you will react to this immediately, because you are programmed to give this word love much, much more value than life itself. You will immediately say: '' how dare you to tell me that i don't love my children, my wife, my husband, my mother, my father, my siblings and so forth and forth.......

What is really going on within you is just you creating and fueling this ''good feeling'' that you call love inside you about another person. And this person MUST have some points that you have come to accept as things that you would consider lovely so you can than love this person, which was all influential learning or copying.  If your love was real, it would have been the same for every single human being and other expressions in this reality, you would have not been going through a little love here and a lot of love there.You would not have had special people in your life.It would all be the same, because love would be an expression that all are expressing equally. So as long as there are different levels of the so-called love, what you term love will never be real. And how can love be real if it is not an expression, but falls in the category of experience and feeling, which is not as one as equal with and as life...??? And how can it be real if it is the opposite of hate, which is a polarity, separation. Life is not a polarity, it is everything, all inclusive. It is than in separation to what you believe you are, you are not equal and one with the definition you have of what love means, you are not living it, if you were living it for real, in fact you would not be looking for people to love you and for you to love other people, it would be who you are, you know, like breathing, normal things you do. You would than be a walking physical love expression as a human being.

So you see, look at the earth, the earth is one big organism that as this one big organism that is made out of zillions of little particles that make up the world as it exists. Now all those particles work together in unison, as a whole so earth can have it's expression as earth. Now the same applies for every other thing and form from the earth to. Like a tree, an animal, a stone, clouds, mountains, rivers, plants, microbes, bugs......etc etc.......all those expressions on their own as one expression is a coming together of many other single expressions of life, can you see this, is it clear..?? So your human body as a whole, as a complete functional human body is a totality of individual expressions of life working together to maintain and support and assist this one individual human body made out of many individual bodies.  Now this is LOVE. Every part of your body have equal value and worth as all the other parts, otherwise your body will not work properly. Your brain has no more value than your nail. the same goes for your hair vs your eyes. Every thing you can name on your body as parts, are equally valuable as the body that you are.

So what we have come to accept and allow about ourselves and call it life is not what your body itself is expressing as a physical expression of multitudes of individual expressions coming together to express even more, it's like a fest of expressions, all in harmony. Have a look at your world and see/understand/realize that you as a human being, and i am talking to you the EGO now, you are not reflecting the expression of the totality of what you are as a human physical body and not this alone but also as the other expressions, you are against this wholeness..!!

Time to birth yourself to this group where the fest of expressions is not harmed by you the EGO.

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Thanks.


Larry Manuela











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